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When the world feels too big, and you feel just right

You might be walking through a park, or gazing at a night sky far from city lights. Suddenly, a feeling washes over you, a sense of something much larger than yourself, and for a moment, your everyday worries seem to recede.

3 moments when awe shows up

1. The vastness and accommodation — Awe is often sparked by perceiving something immense, like a mountain range, or an intricate pattern, like a complex musical piece. Psychologists call this 'perceived vastness.' Crucially, it's not just size, but also the feeling that your current understanding or mental framework needs to expand to accommodate this new experience. This often leads to a humbling sense of perspective. Try to notice moments where you feel your mind stretching to take in something new or grand.

2. Shifting focus from self to surroundings — When experiencing awe, your attention naturally shifts away from your immediate concerns and internal monologue. This 'small self' effect is a core component. Instead of focusing on personal anxieties or daily tasks, your awareness broadens to encompass the environment, other people, or even abstract ideas. This temporary reprieve from self-focus can be deeply refreshing. Pay attention to how your internal chatter quiets when you encounter something truly impressive.

3. A sense of connection and prosociality — While awe can feel intensely personal, it also often fosters a sense of being part of something larger. This might manifest as feeling connected to nature, humanity, or even a spiritual dimension. Research suggests that experiencing awe can make people more generous and cooperative, as it broadens their sense of community and reduces self-interest. Consider how a shared experience of wonder might bring people closer together.

Try this before next week

This week, actively seek out one moment where you might encounter awe. This could be looking up at tall trees, listening to a powerful piece of music, or observing a natural phenomenon. Notice what happens to your thoughts and feelings in those moments.

Where do you most often encounter moments that make you feel a sense of wonder or vastness?

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